He wanted to propose to her, but she taught him a harsh lesson.
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This young man was ambitious and wanted to marry a perfect girl. He searched for a girl who was religious, moral, and beautiful. When he found a girl, his family went to see her and asked for her hand. The bride's family agreed to let the young man see their daughter. The young man went to see the girl and talk to her.
But the surprise was that after he spoke to the girl and saw her, he told his family, in front of everyone, "I don't want her."
The family and the people were surprised.
They asked him why he refused.
He told them that the girl wasn't beautiful.
There was a defect in her eye. Her eyes aren't beautiful.
I want a girl who is more beautiful than her.
The girl asked him, "When you buy a table and it has a defect, do you blame the seller or the maker?"
He replied, "Of course, I blame the maker. He's the one who made the table, and the seller is just an intermediary."
She replied, "So you're blaming God Almighty for creating me like this."
He replied, "No, I seek God's forgiveness. The table has nothing to do with God."
She said, "You blame the maker for a defect in his craftsmanship, then criticize God's creation of my eyes."
The young man was impressed by the girl's response and character and told her, "I will overlook the defect in my eyes and marry you because of your strong faith."
She replied, "But I will not accept marriage to you because of your weak faith."
Advice: Don't try to hurt someone. Even if you have the right to refuse, you don't have the right to hurt them with the real reason for your refusal.
A university student says:
One day during a lecture, a new student entered the class. The strange thing was that he was wearing boots. Halfway through the lecture, the professor asked a question, and the young man wearing the boots answered incorrectly. The professor became angry at the answer and said to the student, "I saw you wearing boots in the middle of summer, and I washed my hands of you."
Everyone in the hall laughed at the student.
The student stood up with confidence and said, "God has blessed you with many things, but He has taken away from you the adornment of reason."
The students all stopped laughing in astonishment, and the professor became even more angry. Before the professor could take action against the student, he stood up from his chair and lifted his robe. Both his legs were made of plastic, and the boot was the only shoe that could accommodate the prosthetic legs.
The professor was stunned for two minutes and canceled the lecture, his eyes brimming with tears.
Don't look down on the person in front of you, no matter the reason.
Stop mocking and commenting on others. Look at yourselves.
The worst thing that happens to us is that when we see a negative in someone, we tell everyone around them, but we don't tell them about it!
We're good at talking about each other, not with each other!
I liked a phrase written in a hotel:
"If we satisfy you, talk about us. If we displease you, talk to us."
Let's apply it to end backbiting among us.
The tongue has no bones, but it kills.
